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Frequently Asked Questions


                      
**Please visit the official Hypnobabies website for more detailed information**
What Is Hypnobabies?
What Are The Benefits Of Using Hypnosis For Childbirth?
Why Choose The Hypnobabies Program?
What is Hypnosis?
Can it really be painless?
When is the best time to take Hypnobabies during my pregnancy?
How does it work?
Should I take Hypnobabies classes if I'm planning on using medication?
I have a low pain tolerance. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
Should I take Hypnobabies if I'll be having a cesarean birth?
Why should I use the Hypnobabies program instead of a hospital prepared childbirth or other independent class?
Should I take a live class or order the Hypnobabies Home Study course?
Do I need a partner?
I have fast labors. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
I have long labors. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
I'm a first-time mom. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
I've had a baby before and it really hurt. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
I'm very analytical. Will Hypnobabies work for me?
Will I be in a trance or disconnected from the experience?
Will my mind be under someone else's control?
                      
                      

What Is Hypnobabies?

Hypnobabies is a 5 week *complete childbirth education course* using Gerald Kein's Painless Childbirth techniques instead of simple relaxation, breathing or guided imagery. We use our Hypnobabies Workbook, CDs and hypnosis scripts to train the inner mind that contractions in labor will be felt only as pressure and tightening sensations. Hypnobabies uses the same kind of hypnosis techniques that people employ when preparing for surgery without any medication, which is called hypno-anesthesia. Our classes also teach the Hypnobabies Birth Partners how to fully support our Hypno-moms, although Hypnobabies can also be used very successfully by single mothers. Although not every woman will have a completely pain-free unmedicated birthing experience, that is exactly what we aim for and our success rate is about 70%, far above any other childbirth method, which is very gratifying.
 
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What Are The Benefits Of Using Hypnosis For Childbirth?

~ Hypno-couples are deprogrammed from the usual negativity of childbirth stories and scenarios they've always heard, by way of training in Hypnobabies classes, and the CDs and scripts which have positive and deeply implanted messages. This automatically sets them up for a better attitude and confidence in birthing.
                      
~ The Hypno-mom will use fewer drugs or no drugs, which means less risk of side effects for mother and baby, due to elimination of the Fear/TensionPain Syndrome as well as using powerful post-hypnotic suggestions.
                      
~ Most hypno-mothers have shorter Birthing Times since there is less resistance of the birthing muscles when pain and fear are minimized or eliminated.
                      
~ The birthing woman generally has much more energy throughout first and second stage, due to total relaxation throughout the birthing process.
                      
~ The birthing environment is much more calm and peaceful when the natural childbirth mother is comfortable.
                      
~ Hypno-babies are born gently without drugs in their systems or hearing their mothers cry out in pain.
                      
~ Breech and posterior babies can be turned using hypnosis.
                      
~ Blood pressure, heart rate, and temperature can be lowered and nausea, back and hip pain eliminated with hypnosis during pregnancy and birthing.
                      
~ There are fewer interventions for failure to progress and therefore fewer fetal and maternal complications during birthing.
                      
~ The deep relaxation in childbirth hypnosis sessions has also helped many a nervous dad to cope, and the skills that the hypno-couple learns for relaxation and hypnosis will benefit them for the rest of their lives. In Hypnobabies, our Hypno-daddies also get their own relaxation CD.
 
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Why Choose The Hypnobabies Program?

We are not a regular “hypno-birth” class. Hypnobabies is very detailed and successful, uses medical hypnotic anesthesia techniques, from Gerald Kein's amazing Painless Childbirth program, as opposed to simple visualization and imagery, and contains the same kinds of hypnotic scripts used by people who undergo surgery with hypnosis as their only anesthetic. We also *fully* train the Birth Partners by giving them their own Birth Partner’s relaxation CD, and their own detailed Birth Partner's Guide for labor, which allows them to fully grasp their role in the preparation for baby’s birth as well as their partner’s birthing. This is unique to Hypnobabies and we are very proud of this feature.
                      
Hypnobabies classes also provide excellent and *complete childbirth education*, lacking in most birth hypnosis programs. Providing this *complete childbirth education* ensures that our wonderful students will not have to take other natural childbirth classes whose philosophy is so different that it negates what they have learned in Hypnobabies. "Pain management and coping skills" are actually opposite of what is learned in Hypnobabies; we teach Pain Elimination by using real hypnosis.
                      
Long before they ever step foot in their first Hypnobabies class, our hypno-moms get to meet their baby and bond with him/her in a tape/CD called Your Special Place, and the second track is Painless Childbirth, which helps teach them how childbirth can easily be so comfortable. (deprogramming them from the usual childbirth horror stories.) They go on to learn the Hypnobabies Techniques in class, bringing their Birth Partner into the preparation, and also how to use hypnosis for many other things: nausea elimination, back and hip pain, insomnia, pre-term labor, pre-term bleeding, perineal massage, internal exams, turning a breech, etc.
                      
One main difference is that our students participate in a hypnosis script each week in class and then have that *same script to work with* for reinforcement during the next week, which makes a huge difference when programming the inner mind for success. It is called "compounding" in the world of hypnosis, is necessary for hypnotic suggestions to be retained by the woman's subconscious, and many other birth hypnosis programs do not have it.
                      
In addition, Hypnobabies requires that their Certified Instructors have a trained background in *both* Childbirth and Hypnosis before becoming trained in Hypnobabies, so that all childbirth questions and concerns from each Hypno-couple can be addressed, hypnotic depth can be assessed, and problems such as resistance and abreaction can easily be dealt with.
                      
Hypnobabies also has "Eyes Open Childbirth Hypnosis", which allows the hypno-mom to walk and talk and move around freely yet remain very relaxed, fully present, aware and in touch with her body and baby and *completely comfortable while doing so*. Other programs rely on complete immobility for focus and concentration. We also do Birthing Rehearsals in class # 5 so that our hypno-moms can experience using their Hypnobabies techniques *while in hypnosis in class*, which is invaluable, and also shows the Birth Partner hands-on exactly how to use his/her cues and assistance. What a confidence builder!
                      
Our students also never have to guess how to make a cohesive *plan for birthing* using the Hypnobabies techniques; it is very clear and concise and includes a Quick Reference Guide for each birthing couple to use during their labor, as well as a Birth Guide CD which keeps the Hypno-mom deeply in hypnosis with constant hypnotic anesthesia suggestions. Our students tell us this "Pure Gold!"
                      
Our Hypnobabies Instructors are always available for help before, during and after the hypno-baby is born, and we also have a free Hypnobabies Yahoo e-mail group for our moms to join for support and encouragement after their Hypnobabies class has ended, so that they can enjoy a community where others are using hypnosis for childbirth as well. We have daily tips and advice, a weekly chat, additional free hypnosis scripts, childbirth hypnosis birth stories and a great deal of camaraderie.
Other programs have shorter and simpler childbirth hypnosis classes (8-10 hours of instruction as opposed to our 15) and may contain some excellent hypno-tools for birthing, but none contain the amount of information and support of Hypnobabies. All elements have been carefully designed to work together and the results are amazing even to me. Not all of our Hypno-moms will have a completely pain-free birthing, yet for most it will be very close to it, and this makes all the difference in the world to so many women. Very gratifying!
                      
~Kerry Tuschoff, HCHI, CHt
Founder of the Hypnobabies Network
 
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What is Hypnosis?

Hypnosis is a natural state. It's that deeply relaxed place between sleep and awake. We all experience hypnosis every time we go to sleep and every time we wake up. We experience hypnosis when we watch TV or a movie, drive a car, do repetitive tasks, or daydream. We are awake and aware of what's happening around us--we just tune it out because we're focused on something else.
When we're in a hypnotic state we are still in control of our mind and will. We cannot be forced to do anything we don't want to do. If someone suggested that we reveal confidential information or act in a way that goes against our personal moral standards we would come out of hypnosis.
We cannot get "stuck" in hypnosis because all hypnosis is self-hypnosis--we are always in complete control of our thoughts and actions. We cannot be hypnotized if we don't want to be.  We aren't in a strange trance or "another realm". We are simply in that natural, deeply relaxed state that we all go through every day. 
Because hypnosis is a natural state--one that we've all experienced every day of our lives--it's easy!  Anyone who wants to be hypnotized can be.
For more information, read The Healing Power of Hypnosis, a Prevention article... reviewing what hypnosis is and how it works. 
 
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Can it really be painless?

Although the Hypnobabies success rate is the best that exists in the childbirth hypnosis field, I cannot promise you a completely pain-free birth experience. Around 70% of moms who use Hypnobabies report painless/very comfortable birthings with another 15 - 20% saying their births were not painless, but still quite manageable. There are many things that will affect your success, especially your choices in childbirth and your commitment level. If you take your Hypnobabies training seriously, practice your hypnosis cues, and continue to do your maintenence work until the baby comes, you will be amazed and thrilled with your birthing and create fascination and happy surprise all around you as you use your Hypnobabies techniques! If you do the Hypnobabies program as outlined, you have a very good chance of giving birth without any pain. Hypnobabies works, so work the program!
 
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When is the best time to take Hypnobabies during my pregnancy?

You may take Hypnobabies classes at any time prior to giving birth provided you start the program 5 weeks or more before your estimated due date. Keep in mind that once you finish the course you will need to continue to maintain your hypnosis techniques through daily practice. If you choose to take the course early in your pregnancy, realize that you still must commit to practicing every day until the baby comes. Many women find that starting their Hypnobabies classes toward the beginning of their third trimester to be an ideal time, but you will know what works best for you.
 
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How does it work?

Hypnobabies is a highly successful program of hypnosis for childbirth, based on the work of Gerald Kein and his Painless Childbirth program. Rather than using mind tricks or distraction techniques, you will learn hypno-anesthesia techniques that will allow you to create and control your own anesthesia while birthing. Hypnobabies teaches a variety of techniques to relax and enter hypnosis instantly and create anesthesia while still allowing you to open your eyes and move or talk while remaining comfortable in hypnosis! Other childbirth methods teach wonderful relaxation techniques for use during birthing. While relaxation does help reduce discomfort, many women find that hypno-anesthesia techniques to be much, much more effective (as is evidenced by the very high percentage of Hypnobabies moms reporting painless childbirth).
One of the best aspects of this class is that you will be able to eliminate the fear that causes tension and pain in birthing, a necessary step for any woman soon to give birth. Fear causes tension, which is a source of pain while birthing.
 
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Should I take Hypnobabies classes if I'm planning on using medication?

Hypnosis is a tool. Medications are other tools available for you to use. You make the choice that is right for you. However, you will be most satisfied with the results of your Hypnobabies training if you fully commit to doing the program as outlined.
 
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I have a low pain tolerance.  Will Hypnobabies work for me?

Using the deep relaxation and hypno-anesthesia techniques taught in Hypnobabies classes you will know how to create and control your body's own natural anesthesia so that you will reduce or even eliminate pain while birthing.  Where there's little or no pain, you can joyfully, calmly, and comfortably experience natural, unmedicated childbirth.
 
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Should I take Hypnobabies if I'll be having a cesarean birth?

Hypnobabies has recently developed a Cesearean Birth preparation program using hypnosis so that moms giving birth surgically can also do so calmly and joyfully. Please contact Hypnobabies for more information or to order the program.
 
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Why should I use the Hypnobabies program instead of a hospital prepared childbirth or other independent class?

Hypnobabies classes differ from hospital or other traditional natural childbirth classes in several key ways:
Most childbirth classes teach that pain during childbirth is inevitable.  They give you ways to cope with the pain.  Hypnobabies classes teach you that pain during childbirth is not inevitable.  While most childbirth classes teach that the more relaxed you are, the less pain you will have, Hypnobabies classes teach you how to actually create and control your own hypno-anesthesia, which will reduce or even eliminate pain while birthing. Although the Hypnobabies success rate is the best that exists in the childbirth hypnosis field, I cannot promise you a completely pain-free birth experience. Around 70% of moms who use Hypnobabies report painless/very comfortable birthings. These moms worked the program, so the program worked for them.
Independent Hypnobabies classes teach you how to plan the birth you want, not the birth that someone else might expect you to have. We teach you to remember that this is your experience and your baby's one and only birth. Hypnobabies covers a lot of consumer information, including the benefits and risks of the more common medical interventions in American birth today. Women who have full information about their prospective choices will make informed decisions. If you don't know your options, you don't have any!
Hypnobabies works wonderfully with a "coach" (we call them Birth Partners) or alone. All hypnosis is self-hypnosis and your own personal commitment and practice as the one giving birth will have the greatest impact on your experience. With Hypnobabies your Birth Partner(s) will be very knowledgeable and experienced in aiding your comfort and hypno-anesthesia. If you do not have a partner (or friend or sister or mom) to attend classes with you, consider hiring a doula (professional labor support person) to be with you during your birthing time. I will be more than happy to help your doula to understand how best to help you as a hypno-mom and your doula is welcome (and encouraged!) to attend classes with you.
 
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Should I take a live class or order the Hypnobabies Home Study course?

The Hypnobabies Home Study course works wonderfully. There are many benefits to using it. There are also many benefits to taking a live class. A live class gives you the opportunity to interact with other students and an instructor who can answer your questions as they come up. Attending a class will motivate some students who may not exercise the discipline necessary to complete a home study option (Birth Partners generally benefit from live classes in particular). There are elements of a live Hypnobabies class that are not included in the home study option due to the restrictive nature of packaging a course for self-instruction. Live Hypnobabies classes are just a lot of fun, too! The Hypnobabies Network strongly encourages taking a live class if there is one available near you because more is included in the course.
 
If you live too far away from an instructor to feasibly take a five week series of classes, you might consider contacting the nearest instructor to see if you can come to Class 5 so that you can participate in the Birth Rehearsal and watch the Hypnobabies birth videos.
 
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Do I need a partner?

No. Hypnobabies works wonderfully with a "coach" (we call them Birth Partners) or alone. All hypnosis is self-hypnosis and your own personal commitment and practice as the one giving birth will have the greatest impact on your experience. However, if you are going to have a support person be with you as you birth, it's best if he or she knows how to help so that he or she doesn't unintentionally hinder your efforts. This is why partners (or another support person) are encouraged to attend the classes as well. With Hypnobabies your Birth Partner(s) will be very knowledgeable and experienced in aiding your comfort and hypno-anesthesia. If you do not have a partner (or friend or sister or mom) to attend classes with you, consider hiring a doula (professional labor support person) to be with you during your birthing time. I will be more than happy to help your doula to understand how best to help you as a hypno-mom and your doula is welcome (and encouraged) to attend classes with you.
 
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I have fast labors. Will Hypnobabies work for me?

Obviously your body is already very comfortable with opening to birth your baby.  Short labors can be more intense, which is why Hypnobabies is so great.  Using your Hypnobabies skills, you'll be able to create instant relaxation and hypno-anesthesia so that the experience of your labor--even if it proceeds quickly--will be more comfortable and less intense.
 
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I have long labors. Will Hypnobabies work for me?

Labor lengths vary greatly from woman to woman and many factors come into play, only some of which can be controlled. Genetics and your own body's ideal birth progression rate are what they are. You can't change them. Other factors that come into play are your choice of provider (a supportive provider will allow you to relax and feel safe), your choice of birthplace (an environment in which you feel safe and relaxed will allow you to open more easily), fetal position (babies can be encouraged to adopt optimal position, but sometimes babies persist to present awkwardly), your beliefs about birth (fearing birth or believing birth to be safe and normal), and your level of relaxation during labor and birth.
Hypnobabies teaches about all of these other factors and focuses heavily on the last two: releasing fears about birth so that you can relax and teaching you how to relax and create hypno-anesthesia instantly so that your labor will be comfortable. You will learn in class how your body works more easily and quickly when you are relaxed. Hypnobabies moms typically see a reduction of labor length because they are so relaxed. Even if your labor is longer than average, Hypnobabies will allow you to perceive the time as passing quickly and will help you from becoming fatigued.
 
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I'm a first-time mom. Will Hypnobabies work for me?

Yes.Hypnobabies works wonderfully for first-time mothers. The great thing about giving birth for the first time is that you don't have past experiences to create certain expectations.  You can adopt positive beliefs about birth more easily and can make good decisions to create a positive birth experience without having to go through a negative experience first.
 
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I've had a baby before and it really hurt. Will Hypnobabies work for me?

Yes.Hypnobabies works fantastically well for women who have given birth before. The great thing about having given birth before is that you have a good sense of what you liked and what you didn't, which helps you make more focused decisions the next time around.  Hypnobabies helps you release your fears, anxieties, and limiting thoughts about birth which in turn gives you the ability to relax deeply. Hypnobabies also gives you powerful hypno-anesthesia techniques which enable you to give birth very comfortably. With your new Hypnobabies skills your future birth experiences will be profoundly different from past birth experiences.
 
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I'm very analytical. Will Hypnobabies work for me?

Yes. All hypnosis is self-hypnosis. If you want to reach a state of hypnosis, you will. If you believe Hypnobabies will work and you practice the techniques, it will work. Hypnobabies works for all types of thinkers, learners, and personality types. The smarter you are, the more effective hypnosis is.
 
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Will I be in a trance or disconnected from the experience?

No. Think about a time when you were lying in bed, not quite awake and not quite asleep, either.  It's a very peaceful, relaxed state. You're aware of things going on around you (such as music playing, the wind blowing, traffic outside, etc.), but you just don't care. You could wake up if you wanted to or if you needed to, or you could go to sleep. This is the place Hypnobabies teaches you to reach during your birthing. You will always be aware of what's going on around you. Using the hypnosis techniques taught in Hypnobabies you will always be relaxed with hypno-anesthesia flowing exactly where you need it, even when you choose to open your eyes and move around.
While using Hypnobabies, you will be in a heightened state of awareness. You will feel more in tune with yourself and more connected with your baby. You will not be passive. You will feel the power of your uterine muscles as they surge with each birthing wave, these sensations will simply be free of discomfort. You will be in tune with your instincts and will do what your body tells you you need to do.
 
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Will my mind be under someone else's control?

No. All hypnosis is self-hypnosis. No one can guide you into a state of hypnosis unless you want them to. Once in a state of hypnosis, no one can tell you act in a way contrary to your core values or cause you to believe something that goes against your core beliefs. It's up to you to choose which suggestions you will accept and which suggestions you will reject. If someone tried to manipulate you into doing something that you didn't want to do, you would come out of hypnosis instantly. You are always in control. You are welcome (and encouraged) to listen to each of your Hypnobabies cds in a normal waking state prior to listening to them for guided hypnosis. This will allow you to know exactly what suggestions will be given.
 
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Content is adapted from the Hypnobabies Network site at www.hypnobabies.com and www.enjoybirth.com